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Art…what does it mean to your child?
By Amy | August 10, 2007
My oldest lil’ guy, Lil’ Mel, just graduated from elementary school today!
It was very exciting for him as he has passed through another door leading to adulthood (we all remember wanting to grow up way too fast don’t we?). We were VERY proud parents when after his name was called…
Mel was presented with his awards and certificates. Unbeknownst to us he had achieved the A/B honor role for the third trimester as well as his overall grades for the entire year. Mel also received his promotion certificate and an award in art.
I see him doodling all the time on everything he shouldn’t be…from his homework to my work notebook to the back of receipts he finds in the car. I must admit he’s not half-bad!
What I didn’t know was that Mel’s “habit” was actually something he truly enjoyed and excelled in-even at school. I asked Mel why he never shared that with me and he just shrugged (which has become so typical since he turned eleven).
Now that I know that it’s more than just doodling to him, I can support him and ask him more about his drawings. I was surprised to find some pretty good renditions of various Pokemon characters hiding amongst his school notes.
Now I just need to get Mel to use plain drawing paper instead of everything else he comes into contact with!
Art is another one of those “free” (or VERY cheap) things your child can enjoy. It is a superb way to encourage your child to express him or herself.
Seeing all of Mel’s new artwork made me go back through other pieces he’s brought home through the years…and now I can see his style as it developed and matured. I can’t wait to see what Mel comes up with in the future.
Always encourage your child to express themselves in ways that they are comfortable and that they enjoy. What we can’t put into words sometimes we can put into a drawing or on canvas.
For the price of some paper and pencils (maybe paint or crayons depending on your child’s age and preference) you can let them create their own masterpieces and get a glimpse into “their” world.
Too often we take for granted that our children (grandchildren, nieces, nephews, friends kids’, etc) DO know what they want and what they like. Kids are a lot smarter than we sometimes give them credit for!
Remember to always praise your child when they express themselves in unhurtful ways, it will encourage them to continue doing so as they grow.
Now I’m off to frame some more art that has more meaning to me than any million dollar painting any day!
Amy
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